ITS BACK – GUESS WHAT?

With the new year all set – guess what is back?

Yes you are correct – Resolutions are back – are they more stronger now!

Resolutions-2018

With every passing year and with the commencement of the new one we make so many resolution but hardly a handful of people manage to live up to their reputations.

This post is not about motivating you how to live it up or what resolutions you need to make or break – but it is highlighting the most sought of resolutions(world wide) which get broken easily. I have not done any statistics or google – and this is my personal feeling(or experience) and even if a survey is created I am pretty sure that these are ought to be on top of the list.

Here are the most common resolutions which get broken very fast:

1-Quit Smoking

By far this is the most disrespected resolution as it is taken only to be broken within a week, actual quitters are now waiting for a new year resolution to quit smoking though I know many who have already kept their word.

2-Quit Alcohol/Beer/Booze

This is mostly taken during the new year eve – Ah I have had enough of it now and it’s high time to quit. Alas! this is short lived too – and do you know how long does it last for most people – less than 12 hrs. Wondering why?

As you get up late after a heavy overdose of ethanol its already 11:30 AM or past and by the time you get over from your hangover the sun has gone down again which tempts the person – damn it lets do it again 🙂

3-Exercise Regularly

From tomorrow I will go for a morning walk, jogging, running in the morning, join the gym, Yoga or Zumba whatever be your favourite one.

Experience has it that in the 1st week of January it is better to be cautious for regular morning walkers and joggers as they might encounter heavy surge of the revolutionaries and there might be a stampede.

However it does not last long too – some have their late nights, some love to sleep, some hate to get up early in the morning and some have never started as they ended up late in the new year eve party. Until the bell rings and the doc says start running today so that your medicines dont start running when its too late.

4-Eating Healthy

This is somewhat which people do stick to and it does last long as compared to the other ones – but I might be wrong as this is not as apparent and visible as their abov counterparts.

The rest of the resolutions like reading books or learning to play guitar and other are most of the time met.

If you carry out analysis the real problem underlying in the resolutions being broken is the fact that we cannot stick to our promise or commitments. It is easy to promise, promise to your Mom, dad, wife or son, easy to take marital vows in front of sacred dise with thousand people around – then why we have marital discord, easy to recite a holy mantra for peace – but in the long run we forget then to be in place and to win this race we need to practise the art of commitment, truth, discipline and contemplate the fact that we have given our words to someone and realise – what is the value of my words if I am unable to live up to it without any legal obligation. However trust me it is easier said than done which is the reason many fail – It is always the simplest of the task in which people fail.

So I wish you all have more strength to start this year with a positive heart and soul and live up to all your resolutions and dreams.

Do share in case you have heard about some weird experiences with resolutions and I have myself kept many and broken some. Also let me know if you have something to add in this list which is easily broken every-time.

I have written this article in a light mode and do not intend or wish to harm the intentions of passionate people who are an inspiration for many and prove that one can do what he believes in.

Have a good day and Jai Shri Krishan 🙂

Stay Focused on your Goal

Just stay focused on your goal and you will never miss it.

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Sneak peek and don’t lose your target

Despite all distractions just think about it and work towards it and you will achieve it.

Have a good day.

TAKE OFF,TUESDAYS

It’s already Tuesday and it’s time to take off, just get set and fly, challenge the sky and don’t limit your thoughts.

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Taking off for a flight

It’s your life, you need to decide how you want to take it high.

Have a great day ahead 🙂

It takes a lot of hard work for blooming flowers

Just awe stuck with the beauty of the flowers in their full bloom.

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It takes a lot of hard work to see the flowers bloom – sow the seeds, water the plants and take care of them and most important have patience after putting the hard work to see them bloom.

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Success in life is also similar to the blooming of flowers, you need to plant the seed of thoughts, do your hard work and have a lot of patience to enjoy the sweet success.

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At times the result might not be appealing, however these add to experiences to aid us in future.

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Also remember like the flower fades away and wither, success is also short lived and we should not get carried away by success. People forget your achievements very soon, set new targets and work towards them

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Have a wonderful day and hope you enjoyed the flost – floral post.

Does Life give a second chance?

 

We as humans do make mistakes, or take a bad decision and if I leave apart the intensity and rank them equally, do people stand a chance to bounce back or there are no second chances?

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Does life give us a second chance @http://agileopedia.com/

May be there are occasions when you:

  • Mess up at a presentation.
  • Loose a deal
  • Break a heart
  • Are rude towards others
  • Cant take back your words

I am certain that if you recollect yourself and give your best you definitely stand a chance to get back on track. It is up to us whether we want to ponder and curse about the situation or rise up again and give our best to minimize the damage and break even. During such situation it is always important to have a good friend, relative or someone in your professional circle with whom you can always discuss and seek advice from be it a personal or a professional matter.

Although we must try not to mess with the first chance provided as you will not be fortunate every time and some misses are irrecoverable and it can only be minimized. So it is all about making the best after the worst has happened.

Just don’t loose hope, realise your fault and at times the guilt. Build your confidence to bounce back on life. Always stay positive and prove the world your worth. Don’t stop believing in yourself.

Love to hear from you all about your take on the subject.

 

 

 

 

Are you the last letter of the English Alphabet?

Are you the last letter of the English Alphabet?

I love to take challenges and so many people do, remember the Ice Bucket Challenge which stormed the internet and social media a few days back.

What type of person like challenges? Are they special, are they super powered or they are destined.

Challengers are:

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    First or Last @http://agileopedia.com/

    Determined to prove and succeed.

  • They are looking out for wider areas to explore.
  • They are chasing their passion
  • They are ambitious.
  • They believe in “Never give up”
  • They are consitent.
  • Failure or success does not bother them, it is the learning and unlearning process they carry ahead.

So what do you think about yourself, are you the one is going to pick up the gauntlet when thrown at you or be like the last letter of the English Alphabet which is always sleeping.

Enjoy your weekend guys…..